A journey to a new Me! Journaling my way to success and making it fun! Taking the ride for whatever comes and being honest every step of the way. Living out life to it's fullest. Staying healthy and loving the time I have here with family. Giving the glory all to God!
Triggers: Key Robber of Successfully Breaking a Habit
Today I am dealing with simple and stupid daily stress triggers around the house and have to ask some questions
Is it me, or did God create men short a 'clean up' gene?
Woman LOVE a clean, picked up house.
Why don't men get that?
Let's take the bathroom:
Toilet: Maybe they are playing water guns but their aim is awful and then they never look back to clean it up!
Organizing hygiene products: Their hygiene is pretty good, but the products they use are all over the place. Woman put a container for organizing and make it easily accessible, but they don't seem to realize that Take it out, Put it back!
For that matter no matter what organizer we give our men, they have to, just have to leave what they took out of it, on the counter. Is it a game they play with us?
Toothpaste tubes: How do they get the paste out after it has dried and crusted around the hole leaving only a pinhole for excreting the paste onto the brush. They do it though, amazing!
Toothbrush: Don't they feel the need to rinse the handle off, I mean sooner or later the crusted paste will fall off with use, Geesh!
Toilet paper: Is it too much to ask them to replace the empty roll on the roller, and not just put the new roll on top of the empty used one?
Bathing/Shower: A FACT:10 out of 10 wet towels will stay wet if not laid out flat for drying? I know that is a stunning stat, but it's true hun! Scrunching your towel up after bathing does nothing but keeps it damp and musty!!!
OK ONTO THE BEDROOM
Socks: Can we not have one central place to drop dirty socks? Oh and PLEASE unravel them so they wash clean? Not My Job, Man! Thank YOU!
Clothes: We have a laundry basket, please!
Glasses/Dishes: Ok, I mean how many water glasses does a man need? And if the sink is empty? It's likely the cup or dish should go into the dishwasher.
Countertops: When making a midnight snack, look behind you? YES, crumbs fall, clean them up! And they wonder how we know they ate?
Hanging up Coats: Coat Closets are put near the door for a reason. The kitchen chair is 30 feet away from the door in our home. Do they work the 30 foot walk to hang their coats on the kitchen chair instead, in as part of their daily workout? Don't they know we actually like the wood on the chairs to show, I know they don't realize that.
Opening Mail: Opened envelopes and garbage cans? Need I say more?
Just one of the many triggers of stress woman deal with daily.
If you're anything like me, each new year you say "I'm going to do this or that"
I realized that one of my big hiccups in saying this is that I don't ready my mind for longterm goals. Oh I don't mean, I know I will have my last cigarette on December 31st, and I am ready to quit cold turkey January 1st. No, that isn't what I mean, though I've been there, done that. I mean to go to the core and start to build the habit and change there. For me as most know it would be my spirit. I have failed over the years and realized that the problem has been where my spirit is leaning and gleening it's strength from. So this year is different for me.
My journey is leading me down the path that will tap into where my source of strength comes from, in my case it is my relationship with the Lord, for you it might be something else. I am rebuilding my habits to embrace that relationship and depend on Him for the strength to work daily at changing me. My goals this year are simple: To be a better me. And yes, I have a weight goal with an end date for reaching it that is part of this. So for the next 6 months the highway my life path is taking will be "under construction". The speed limit is slow in order to do and be the best I can be and to manage my expectations along the way.
I'm excited to begin the journey and blog as I go. I hope you'll join me.